Wednesday, May 20, 2009

Sharing of thoughts

Today Pst Kong share with us about the series of Romans & Galatian.

Whole session is very good,I've really receive alot. Towards the end of the session,what he shared really pierced through my heart.

He shared with us through the verse of Rom 1:10 which tell us that although Paul know of his calling from God and he know that he know that he is going to where God wants him to go and which he really have great desire from God to go. However there didn't seems to have open door at that time yet, yet he didn't demand God to sent him right now. Instead he lift up his strong desire to God and says "God you know I've been praying for this,and you know I wanted to go but your ways are higher than my ways,let your will be done according to your moment and timing" ..I tell you,this phrase really broke me into pieces.

Remember a few days ago,I juz shared with mao..Seems like everyone have reach their goal,like yvonne(have already become a BV-a great one and already stand beside e one she always wanted to stand with in the midst of serving as a bv) and mao(have already been recruited into elite team as he desire as well)..Then I ask ,what about mi? Then..he tried to console mi and so on~~
But today is really like God is really hinting me and at the same time telling me. When He has called us to somewhere or to do certain things,doesn't mean it got to be NOW. He have a timing and moment for it!
Remembering once after SOT on my way to office from Lavender mrt,God showed me a revelation when I walk through this wide field filled with lotsa wild flowers. Some withered,some shine beautifully,then I realized everything on earth have its time and moment to shine specifically.
True calling from God can surely go through test of time. And I really believe my time will soon come too! I'm waiting and waiting~ Nv give up,Jiayou!!!~=)

Wednesday, April 08, 2009

SOT day 2

When we worship,we got to be in 1 mind,1 soul and 1 spirit.. All in one..No one else..But God alone..

Monday, December 29, 2008

My Love Language

The Five Love Languages

My primary love language is probably
Receiving Gifts
with a secondary love language being
Acts of Service.

Complete set of results

Receiving Gifts: 10
Acts of Service: 8
Quality Time: 7
Words of Affirmation: 3
Physical Touch: 2


Information

Unhappiness in relationships, according to Dr. Gary Chapman, is often due to the fact that we speak different love languages. Sometimes we don't understand our partner's requirements, or even our own. We all have a "love tank" that needs to be filled in order for us to express love to others, but there are different means by which our tank can be filled, and there are different ways that we can express love to others.

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Thursday, September 25, 2008

Market with Empathy

An advice from newspaper-article by patricia fripp:

Customers buy if they believe you understand and care about them...

If you want your marketing to make $$ for you,focus on your customers' feelings and beliefs. Unless you can convince them that you understand them and their problems-that you are empathetic-they are probably not going to buy from you.

The headline on one of my marketing pieces says,"Hiring a speaker is an awesome responsibility".It is.These days,if you hire the wrong speaker in a corporate job,you could end up in severe trouble.

Many Professional speakers focus their marketing on themselves-how good they are,how successful.It works,but readers don't get the message that the speaker really knows who they are and can fill their needs. Your customers need to believe that you know,understand and care about them.

There is a good way to fo this when you are writing or creating your marketing piece.

  1. Make a list of the prospects' biggest problems from their point of view.(if you dunno,ask them)
  2. Decide how these problems make your prospects feel.Tell a story abt someone experiencing the same prob.What does this encounter look and sound like?What external and internal forces cause these feelings and sensations?Be really creative in putting yourself in the prospects' shoes
  3. Address those feelings.Write abt ur prospects' feelings and reactions.PRove to them that you understand and care.Then prove that you can solve the problem.

Why be empathetic?When you just relate the facts-"we have a store at such-and-such location"or "we sell a product that does this and that"or"we are consultants in this field",you are implying that you are similar to everyone else.You make urself an ordinary commodity.DO you know what ppl do with commodities?They try to get the lowest price.

So,when you market yourself,capitalise on ur unique ability to understand and solve problems.It will greatly increase ur client base and their loyalty to you.

As a side benefit,it will also help you get paid wat you are worth.As noted businessman Nido Qubein says:"when you solve a problems that keep CEOs awake at night,they never ask you what you charge."

Thursday, February 14, 2008

Happy Valentines Day!!








Today was a very happi day..

Never Expected...


This time round he really gave mi a very big surprise..


I tot this year will be the same roses and cook a simple meal den its another day again..


BUT But but....




To my surprise when he ask mi to wait for him at the staircase while he go and get the flowers and i tot it will be blue roses again..nothing special..




And suddenly "estoma"which is "jie gen hua" appear in front of mi.. and i was stunned for a few second...OMG..my favourite "estoma"!! Aww!! This kind of flower onli taiwan have..(checked be4)
fly mi to the moon...........=)






And my favourite bolognise pasta...ya..with lotsa fattening cheese and cream..






After all the hardwork..Finally he is able to sit down for a good meal..



But its still not over yet...




Lastly.. A strawwberry jelly for my dessert...Yummy yummy..


Last year he've done it,but fail..


This year is slightly better...


Compare the difference between the top which is done last year and the bottom which is done this year..Slightly better rite?..

After that we exchange our gift. i gave him a watch while he gave mi a precious moment figure..

Den he send mi home and i gave him my creation of tiramisu.."clap clap"..Feeling proud of myself..Hehe..

Enjoyable day with the one i love most...^.^

Thursday, January 24, 2008

In sch blogging again

I'm so so so soooo angry with U! LEONG MINSING!Also giving me attitude!always look so paranoid!So what if i'm ur student?!Doesn't mean u can give mi all of that!
Firstly,u didn't pay mi and secondly i dun care watever marks or remarks u wanna give mi..If onli by bootlicking u and willingly stand by ur side to let u vend ur anger in order to get good grade..i'm sorry,i rather take my bad grade and grad from this sch!Early in e morning switch off my com and makes mi take a long time to search for my UG file to load and nv even explain wat happen!Wasting my money to buy blank disc to save my proj in e end can't use and asking mi to get another one, u think i v rich ah?!Ppl pay money to do proj still wan us to waste our money to print report,buy blank disc,run errands for u..V clever hor~~Make use of us and dun even have to pay a single penny..
And if u're paranoid becos u're v busy and can't handle..Den dun force urself and make u and others life like hell can~~Argh!!

After vending my anger and have cooled down...

Yap..When my cousin came back from m'sia,she bought mi a gucci sunglass and a white leather bag..Cool~~hehe..And yest my bro actually treat mi dinner as i've no $$ to eat,i dunno how he noes but somehow he noes la..hehe..I feel tat i'm so blessed...=)
i'm loving it~~

Tuesday, January 08, 2008

Colourful Weekends?

LAst fri my 2 pretty cousin,joanne and ashley, and my aunt came over to singapore to settle ashley down at my hse as she is coming over to study at Raffles Design Institute.

On fri they're doin all those adminstrative thingy for her sch and everything like phone line,buy cupboard and stuff to put in my room..Den sat is e SHOPPING DAY! too bad is onli for them,my job is onli to bring them around and watch while they shop~~Arghh!!

Ya..Sat was also a very very fattening day..In e morning we went to eat breakfast at ard 9 plus..DEn ard 12-1pm we went to eat fried wanton noodle at bugis follow by shopping and they spend ard $500++ onli for this 2 days lo..Sigh..(when can i have this type of life?)After that ard 6 plus we went to my dad's workplace at newton to eat (5 grilled chicken wings+5 sting ray+a v big plate of fried rice+vege)..and is like we all eat v little and is onli e 5 of us,den mi and joanne went to meet james while e rest went home to rest.Den we order 8 scoop of ice-cream..8 scoop hor!!..Isn't it sinful?OMG..i'm repenting rite now..LOL

Met James at e outlet beside arcade in AMK hub and eat ice-cream while playing uno stacko,have a great chat,take a few pics and den he send us home..Guess he is really happi as he has been waiting for this opportunity for v v long time and finally he get to see joanne in real person..hehe..

Den had a long chat with joanne till we fall asleep on bed..

Sun morning i quietly wake up and prepare myself to go for svc while they're still soundly in bed.In e afternoon they're preparing their luggage back to m'sia..So i meet them for lunch awhile,went home help them pack awhile and send them off..ya..the saddening part come in,before they board e bus,ashley's mum ask her not to cry with her own eyes red den both of them cry..Sigh..so sad lo..i also cannot tahan sia.. Den i juz stand beside ashley to pad her back while she is still trying to calm herself down.We stood there till e bus left den we proceed for dinner.

At first was really quite awkward,cos normally her mum will chat with her den i normally keep quiet and listen to them de,but then suddenly v quiet den she also no mood talk at that time,den i juz ask her wan to eat wat and stuff like dat to distract her sadness lo~~Den talk abt when go clubbing and stuff..(^-^)..Has been saying wanted to go but in e end also nv go..Guess this time really can go see see look look wat it is really like with my cousin and brother.hehe..(play while u can when u're still young)..Thats wat my cousin told mi..
Yesterday ashley and mi also chat till we fall asleep,chat abt our bf and everything la..so funny..Both our bf now is not our "dream" bf..Is like e unexpected.. Anyway is the chemistry dat counts and most important of all is that they must dote on u~~hehe
oops~~didn't realise i've wrote such a long entry..OKie..Thats all folk!

Tuesday, January 01, 2008

Welcome 2008!!


Hello year 2008!!

Sad to say that year 2007 was a really bad year for me,having bad results,didn't do well for exams,cold relationships with parents,no money,no celebrations no nothing~~Spend christmas and new YeAr eve at home when others are celebrating with a feast or go countdown and watching fireworks somewhere~~Aww..my beloved fireworks..Can say tat i really start and end year 2007 feeling quite disappointed..But i really wan to thanks all the frens and my man who is always by my side,cheering mi up..they nv fail..Although didn't get to celebrate Christmas,But i've been caroling at expo,vivo,esplanade and alexandra hospital to bring joy and atmosphere of love and giving to others..


At vivo!!




At Expo

At esplanade!!

Mi,belle and xuan inside the artist room of esplanade

Wootz..Grand hor??hehe..Tsk tsk tsk..juz look at the artist room..
(Eunice Ho

Artiste)

*head lift high high

Has really been enjoying myself even though i'm sick with bad sore throat..

I really wan to thank God for giving mi so much opportunity and love..He nv fails and is nv too late for anything..nv too late to lift mi up when i'm down..nv fail to cheer mi up..nv fail to pull mi back when i'm out of track..nv fail to lead mi when i'm lost..


Lastly of course not forgeting my beloved!!

the one who is always there for mi,

who always give in to mi,

shower mi with lots of love

and

never fail to treat mi like a princess..:)

Hope 2008 will really be a better year ahead with abundance~~Haha..Turning 21st soon..Already starting to plan for my coming bday in may..I noe i'm a bit "Kiasu"..At least i start haven start to plan my wishlist for my bday hor~~LOL
Alright..Think tats it for today!!Still got work to do~~Bye!!

Friday, December 21, 2007

Resting Day~~

Yesterday was a public holiday and is a "finally" resting day for me..


No special program,no event,no meeting up with friends...


Juz us alone~~Hehe


Actually was supposed to meet at 10am,but he reached at ard 9.30am and is raining..Sigh..So have to drag myself up to bring umbrella for him~~(and it was freezing cold~~)


We went for a sumptuous breakfast at my hse downstair(we ordered 2 plates of Ipoh Hor Fun+1 plate steam "xia jiao"+1 plate fried "xia jiao"..which is so fattening..Arghh!!)


Den slack ard at my hse till ard 1+ to 2 we took a 2 hrs bus ride to city hall(traffic was so jam from newton all e way to city hall)..


We alight at suntec as i was making noise to him that i wan ben and jerry ice-cream from my hse to city hall..LOL..so after alighting,we quickly went to ben and jerry to ease my craving..Yummy~~(strawberry cheesecake flavour with waffle cone)


Den head to marina square to buy movie ticket for "alvin and the chipmunks" while i'm still enjoying my ice-cream..lol..


While queuing up,we saw wang zhi yang( the campus superstar champion)..he looks so shy..LOL


Den we went to shop for awhile for my xmas attire for caroling before having dinner at kfc.. Ordered extra cheese fries and coleslaw..LOL..like hungry ghost huh?
Den we bought a cup cone while watching movie..Is like we eat and eat non-stop for the whole day..Sigh..Wat a sinful day~~

Anyway,today supposed to leave school at 5.30 but i left ard 4 plus near 5 to meet boon for caroling at alexandra hospital.. Was still having sore throat..omg..but i really didn't want to miss it so i went!hehe..pardon my out of pitch sound..LOL..
Anyway..the patient was really happi and looking them smiling so happily and enjoying the atmosphere of christmas coming near was really so heartwarming..
Although its tired,but its worth it..really..is like this is the onli month that we can bless and bring joy to others with our voices,especially to those who have sickness and need to stay in the hospital while all others are celebrating..
But somehow or rather as i was singing halfway,clement's image came to my mind..i dunno y but it juz came like dat..its really sad that he can't see e caroling anymore or celebrate christmas with us anymore..how i wish he can still see all this now..but..(suddenly tears are filling my eyes)..Den i stop myself to think further but back to the lyrics that i'm suppose to sing...sigh..Anyway i bet he still can see us in heaven right now..=)
Praise the LoRd!!

Tuesday, October 16, 2007

1st anniversary update(131007)







Last sat is our 1st anniversary..


We went for service den rush over to Vivocity for our dinner ~~


and the surprise began..wahaha..




This is where we settle our dinner at..



i like the bottle~~nice rite?And this is wat we ordered..




Taste is still acceptable but the garlic taste will last till tml morning~~EEk





Den we headed to the cable car station as planned by him to Mount Faber~~





And we've reached the Jewel Box!! Nice!! The ambience there was super duper Good~~



I'm loving it!!



Then we find some place to settle and chat awhile~~Took some funny pics~~




And finally he pass mi the present he has prepared for mi before we leave that place and tell mi abt the story behind this one and onli bracelet~~


"i'm the key to his heart"


Aww~~so sweet of him~~


So touch~~




So after that we headed back home~~Rushing for his last bus~~


as he've spend all of his $$ for this celebration~~LOL




While we wait for the cable car to come~~Took a pic with a red red tree~~

Thats all Folk!!

Thursday, October 11, 2007

My Inspiration..
My Dreams..
Everytime i see her, i just feel that my dreams are just so near but yet so far~~~

Thursday, August 16, 2007

Would you be there?

If I were Blue
Would you be there for me
And Whisper in my ears that's ok
Would you stand my me
Let me hold You tight
And say you love me one more time
If I Feel good
Would you slow dance with me
And touch my lips with tender loving care
Would you die for me
Would you run with me
And never look back
Would you be there to love to be with me?
Would you swear that your love is always true
Would you say that you'll always be the one
To take my breath away
Would you be there to love to be with me?
Would you swear that your love is always true
Would you say that you'll always be the one
To take my breath away
Would you be there

Friday, June 29, 2007

Friday, June 22, 2007

WAYS TO REJECT GUYS(Humorous)
HE : Can I buy you adrink?
SHE : Actually I'd ratherhave the money.

HE : I'm a photographer. I've beenlooking for a face like yours.
SHE : I'm a plastic surgeon. I'vebeen looking for a face like yours.

HE Hi. Didn't we go on a dateonce? Or was it twice
SHE : Must've been once. Inever make the same mistake twice.

HE : How did you get to be sobeautiful?SHE : I must've beengiven your share.HE : Will you go out withme this Saturday?
SHE : Sorry. I'm having aheadache this weekend.

HE : Your face must turna few heads.
SHE : And your face must turna few stomachs.

HE : Go on ,don't be shy.Ask me out.
SHE : Okay, get out.

HE : I think I could make youvery happy.
SHE : Why? Are youleaving?

HE : What would you say if Iasked you to marry me?
SHE : Nothing. I can't talkand laugh at the same time.

HE : Can I have your name?
SHE : Why? Don't you alreadyhave one?

HE : Shall we go see a movie?
SHE : I've already seen it.

HE : Where have you been all mylife?
SHE : Hiding from you.

HE : Haven't I seen yousome place before?
SHE : Yes. That's why I don'tgo there anymore.

HE : Is this seatempty?
SHE : Yes, and this onewill be if you sit down.

HE : So, what do you dofor a living?
SHE : I'm a femaleimpersonator.

HE : Hey baby, what's yoursign?
SHE : Do not enter.

HE : Your body is likea temple.
SHE : Sorry, there are noservices today.

HE I could see you naked, I'd diehappy.
SHE : I saw you naked, I'dprobably die laughing.

Tuesday, March 13, 2007

Long long ago..Long Long ago...

wohoo!!!!
Exams are all over..now awaiting to go year 3..obviously having holidays..Today is also e actual 5th months of my r/s with pika...Seems that it really have been thousand of donkey years that i didn't update..Pls excuse mi for that..As my laptop spoil and now i'm in m'sia once again to use my cousin's com..
sigh..this trip was sooo sudden that everything planned was ruin..My talentine(vocal) audition..My youth camp..ALL CRASH!!! It all juz happen for this week!!ARGHH!!!After i go back,all these events are gone!!!GONE!!i so sad...
haiz..forget it..
no more mood to update anymore..shall be continue again....

Monday, November 27, 2006

HohohohO

Heiyo~~The time has come..Time for multiplication again this thursday~~Mixed feeling of happiness and sadness~~I dun ask to be with anyone as i fully accept God's will,Wherever He place mi,there i'll be..h3h3..lol..k la..time for updates of my past events~~
Last sunday W372 have a zone outing at sentosa,playing human monopoly..Actually have 6 frens but eventually due to stupid raining day..All 5 have gone home leaving one behind..that is Eileen~~haa..But all thanks to the one EILEEN who did the most running to help us won the 100 swensen voucher..wahaha..of course all members have contributed la..SO happi..Nv expect to win such great prize..As my team consist of 1 cripple man..LOL..BUT do not despise the cripple hor~~Our team still won eventually..muahaha~~~K la..No matter who won,most importantly is the process of the game that we've really enjoy..Think all those running that i've did for sun and yesterday can keep mi fit man~~LOL~~
yesterday went for bbq session with all those security members..Thought of juz eat and run away to home..But at 9pm,the game started..With funny storyline introduction of the game..And treasure hunt begins..Den when we were juz abt to step out,rain comes again..omg..wat a weather huh..Thank God there were still a kind hearted soul who lend us umbrella so i won't have to run under the rain,But poor them have to run under the rain..nvm la..they are SECURITY lei..so Strong..Rain onli ma..LOL..Goodness~~Their forfeit are juz like training session for the army lo..Thank God that their forfeit can excuse gals and wounded man..haha..And is oni through all those climbing of web that i noe actually black pig is a monkey despite of his swollen ankle and lightning strucking..Den get a minor cut on his pig palm..~~LOL~~however through all thick and thins..walking throughout almost the whole area of pasir ris park in the dark night with lightning and rain..We've found all those treasure and finally back to the chalet to find treasure box which consist of newspaper and stuff for us to dress up a KING..Black pig was the chosen one..After all those votings and everything..WE WON AGAIN!!!!!HURRAY!!but we were all wet,of course not as wet as them la..so smelly..haha~~
These 2 days i've really enjoy my time very much with black pig and is really a great experience with all those loving people~~
Pictures will be uploaded soon~~
Stay tune~~

Monday, October 23, 2006

long time no updAtes


hey hey~~
hmm..due to long time no updates,also dunno start from where..so i shall update those latest things and event~~~
Yesterday actually xuan,roger they all were suppose to go for blood donation~~We went but was unsuccessful,due to blah blah reason..Den we headed down to vivo city to help out~~Fun experience~~Ppl there were very friendly and simply fun~~While helping,some silly things happen as well..LOL..was taken down secretly when we are unaware..

just look at our face expression..LOL(so stupid)..


I dunno y,he juz like to see mi getting irritated~And he juz finds it funny and happy to make mi angry~~Arghh!!

i simply love this workpiece...although i smile till my face sooo pain..But i really love it..This is the first drawing of myself!!h3h3..

Thursday, October 05, 2006

photos













Blood donation photos~~


eric's bday celebration at esplanade~~